CHILDREN OF NARCISSISTIC AND BORDERLINE PARENTS: SELF GASLIGHTING

Dr. Kim Sage, Licensed Psychologist January 26, 2022
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Dr. Kim Sage, Licensed Psychologist

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30 % OFF ONLINE COURSES ➡️ use code: healing2025 licensed clinical psychologist in CA (#29089) and due to licensing & insurance can only see patients in CA. I share content about parents with emotional immaturity, narcissistic/borderline pd’s, attachment/relationships, autism, trauma… Courses https://drkimsage.thinkific.com/ 🌷Raised By Eggshell Parents: How To Heal Your Hypervigilant Trauma Response🌷 🌷Identifying Invisible Wounds 🌷 🌷Remothering Yourself🌷 🌷Healing and Dealing with Narcissistic and Borderline l Parents🌷 If you or someone you know is a danger to themselves or someone else, please call an emergency number/immediately to the nearest ER. Information provided on this channel is neither intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice or as a therapeutic relationship, or to make medical decisions.

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LINK FREE COURSE: IDENTIFYING CHILDHOOD EMOTIONAL ABUSE AND NEGLECT FREE CHECKLIST: COMMON TRAITS IN PARENTS WITH BORDERLINE AND NARCISSISTIC PATTERNS https://drkimsage.thinkific.com/ ********************************************************************* This video explores how and why children of Narcissistic and Borderline parents tend to gaslight themselves, as well as the different motivations for gaslighting. Additionally, we explore the steps to begin changing the patterns of self gaslighting, and why it matters to understand the core wounds of having parents who struggle with NPD or BPD, in terms of your core wounds and healing pathways. Denying our reality, our story, our pain and wounds can keep us stuck in the trauma bonds of childhood caregivers, as well as impact our relationships patterns, and how we see ourselves today. Because parents who struggle with disorders like Borderline or Narcissism often have differences in their core wounds and challenges, the reasons they might deny our story or experiences may differ. Then, we often end up internalizing the gaslighting we experienced by telling ourselves "It wasn't that bad......they did their best.....I know it sounds bad, but....everyone struggles...etc" While all of those statements may feel true, it does not mean that even though our parents struggled, our pain should be minimized or doesn't matter. Yes, they struggled...AND.... our pain still matters, and we are worthy of healing and changing the story and relationship. Please consider checking out my free course and checklist, my other courses, and how to access the private healing community with me. As always, sending you so much love and healing. xo For free information: www.drkimsage.com - resources and book recommendations @drkimsage on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drkimsage?lang=en Daily content on Childhood Trauma and Attachment Theory, Parents with BPD and NPD, Emotionally Unsafe Parents, Relationships drkimsage.thinkific.com. Online Course, Private Healing Community, Free Course and Free Checklist Attachmentproject.com Selfcompassion.org acestoohigh.com Favorite podcast: Therapist Uncensored *****COURSES:******* BORDERLINE AND NARCISSISTIC PARENTS: HEALING AND DEALING WITH YOUR TRAUMA **Course Includes: 74 lessons 31 Video Lessons 100 Page Workbook 6 Guided Meditations Screen Recording of the 100 Page Workbook Journal Prompts Exercises **Access to Private Healing Community with me:). (Videos, posts, connecting with like minded others in community focused on healing childhood trauma and relationships) *****COURSE.**** RE-MOTHERED: TRANSFORMING YOUR WOUNDED INNER CHILD INTO AN INTERNALIZED, LOVING MOTHER. (USING TECHNIQUES IN NURTURING, SOOTHING AND SAFETY) **Course Includes: 26 lessons 15 Video Lessons 30 Page Workbook 8 Guided Meditations Screen Recording of 30 Page Workbook Exercises Journal Prompts **Access to Private Healing Community with me:). ((Videos, posts, connecting with like minded others in community focused on healing childhood trauma and relationships) ***FREE COURSE*** INVISIBLE WOUNDS: IDENTIFYING CHILDHOOD EMOTIONAL ABUSE AND NEGLECT & FREE CHECKLIST: IDENTIFYING PARENTS WITH BORDERLINE AND NARCISSISTIC TRAITS 29 lessons Mini-Workbook Journal Prompts Screen Recording of Mini-Workbook Safe Place Guided Meditation *************ONLINE COURSES WITH ME ON THINKIFIC.COM!!!!********** https://drkimsage.thinkific.com. COURSES http://www.drkimsage.com. WEBSITE FREE COURSE: "INVISIBLE WOUNDS". IDENTIFYING CHILDHOOD EMOTIONAL ABUSE AND NEGLECT *************************************************************************************** BORDERLINE AND NARCISSISTIC PARENTS: HEALING AND DEALING WITH YOUR TRAUMA ****************************************************************************************** RE-MOTHERED: TRANSFORM YOUR WOUNDED INNER CHILD INTO A LOVING, INTERNALIZED MOTHER ***************************************************************************************** ***ALL COURSES INCLUDE WORKBOOKS AND JOURNALS, GUIDED MEDITATIONS *****Paid courses include enrollment in private learning and support community on Thinkific with me.:) ***Please note! I am so sorry but my practice is full at this time and I cannot accept new patients. If you would like to be added to my waitlist, please email me at [email protected] and I will email you only when a spot becomes available. I cannot guarantee a spot will open, however, so please know I care very much, but am limited at this time given my case load. Additionally, I am only able to work with California residents for weekly therapy once available. If you are interested, please also add in a few brief details in your email including your reasons for seeking treatment, current diagnoses, concerns, etc. Thank you so very much - I truly and sincerely appreciate you, and the time and thoughts you share here:)

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