He’s Not Flirting — He’s Testing Your Weakness! (10 Mind Games Men Use To Control) | Dr. Orion

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Thank you to today’s sponsors: Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com You know that moment when something feels off… But you can’t explain it. And somehow, you still end up questioning yourself? This episode is for every woman who’s ever been emotionally manipulated, gaslit, or slowly lost her power inside a relationship… and wants it back. I’m joined by Dr. Orion Taraban, psychologist, author, and relationship expert, for one of the most honest, uncomfortable, and empowering conversations we’ve ever had on Women of Impact. We break down how manipulation actually works, why smart women ignore red flags, and the subtle power dynamics that decide who leads (and who loses themselves) in relationships. This is not about blaming women. It’s about giving you the tools to never be played again. Here’s exactly what we dive into: - Why manipulators target emotional “weak spots” (and how to protect yours) - The DARVO tactic narcissists use to flip blame instantly - The 10 principles of power in relationships every woman must understand - Why having options changes how people treat you - How attraction can blind you to red flags you see later - The hard truth about sex, commitment, and fear-based rules If you’ve ever thought: “How did I miss that?” “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of person?” “How do I trust myself again?” Homie… this is your episode. CHAPTER TITLES [00:00:00] The 10 Principles of Power in Relationships [00:05:48] Why Having More Options Changes Everything [00:11:27] Why the Less Emotionally Committed Person Has More Power [00:16:53] How Attraction Creates Fantasy (And Makes You Lie to Yourself) [00:25:58] Why We Ignore Red Flags Even When We See Them [00:31:22] DARVO Explained: How Narcissists Flip the Script [00:34:35] The “Thumb Screw” Emotion Manipulators Exploit [00:45:01] The Captain & Passenger Model of Attraction [00:56:05] Why Women Test Men (And What “Voice Control” Really Means) [01:13:28] The Fundamental Misunderstanding In Most Relationships Follow Dr. Orion Taraban: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychacks Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Want to search through every episode, explore specific topics, or ask me questions directly? Check out my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section. That’s 100% a scammer.