How to Know if Avoidants Like You or Are They Playing You | Decode Avoidant

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#relationshipadvice , #selfimprovement , #mentalhealth , #motivation , #avoidantattachment , #dismissiveavoidant , #attachmentstyles , #datingadvice , #selfworth , #boundaries , #nocontact , #empath How to Know if Avoidants Like You or Are They Playing You | Decode Avoidant Wondering if a dismissive avoidant actually likes you or is just playing push–pull? This video breaks down observable behaviors—consistency, repair attempts, micro-respect, and voluntary vulnerability—so you can separate real interest from testing and breadcrumbing. Learn quick scripts, healthy boundaries, and a screenshot-ready checklist to protect your self-worth while creating space for secure connection—without chasing. Timestamps ⏱️ 00:00 🔥 What this video solves: “like you” vs “playing you” 00:35 🧭 Avoidant fear–need loop (30-second map) 01:40 🗝️ Sign #1: Proximity—less vanishing, more availability 03:05 🧱 Sign #2: Boundaries increase consistency (not arguments) 04:15 💬 Sign #3: Repair attempts—words + matching action 05:30 🛡️ Sign #4: Micro-respect—time, energy, and pace 06:45 🤐 Sign #5: Fewer games, clearer logistics (plans set in advance) 08:00 ❤️ Sign #6: Voluntary small vulnerability (not trauma dumping) 09:15 📞 Sign #7: Initiation after space—without pressure 10:30 🧪 Tests vs proof: how to respond without over-explaining 11:45 🧲 Detachment that attracts (no chasing, no lecturing) 13:00 🧠 Scripts: “respect first” responses you can use today 14:20 🚩 Breadcrumbing & hot–cold patterns = playing you 15:30 🌱 Secure behaviors you mirror to keep dignity 16:40 🧩 Decision framework: double down or step back 17:45 📝 Screenshot checklist: the 7 green flags 18:35 🛑 If they’re testing you: hold line, don’t debate 19:30 🎯 What progress looks like in 2–4 weeks 20:15 🎬 Final cues + next steps Hashtags : #relationshipadvice , #selfimprovement , #mentalhealth , #motivation , #avoidantattachment , #dismissiveavoidant , #attachmentstyles , #datingadvice , #selfworth , #boundaries , #nocontact , #empath , #secureattachment , #anxiousattachment , #healing , #toxicrelationships , #redflags , #emotionalintelligence , #loveadvice , #communication , #personaldevelopment , #growthmindset , #relationshipcoach , #psychology , #mindset , #respect , #commitment , Keywords : avoidant attachment , relationship advice , no contact rule , signs he likes you , dismissive avoidant signs , how to know if avoidants like you , are they playing you , avoidant love signals , avoidant testing behavior , empath and avoidant dynamic , boundaries with avoidant partner , avoidant communication , push pull relationship , emotional unavailability , secure attachment habits , anxious vs avoidant , attachment theory explained , red flags in dating , healing attachment wounds , stop people pleasing , how to set boundaries , avoidant regret phase , how to make him commit , when avoidant comes back , respect vs attention , detachment in relationships , relationship coach tips Why Watch This 🎧 Decode clear, behavioral signs of real interest vs. manipulation. Get exact scripts that hold boundaries and create safety. Use a screenshot checklist to track progress (not feelings). Build calm detachment + self-respect so the right person steps up. Disclaimer : This video is 100% original: the script is written by me, and the voiceover and images are created using my licensed AI tools. I did not reuse third-party footage or copyrighted material, I do not use synthetic engagement, and I am not attempting to violate or circumvent YouTube policies. This upload follows YouTube’s Community Guidelines and Spam/Deceptive Practices policies. If any element needs adjustment, please contact me—I'll promptly replace or remove it to remain in full compliance.