Video Description

If there’s one trait that is universally attractive its confidence. On the other hand, if there is one thing that is universally unattractive, it’s desperation. In a best-case scenario desperation makes people feel sympathy and pity for you, in the worst-case scenario it causes them to feel pressure, discomfort, secondhand embarrassment and even disgust in some cases. Desperation clouds your vision, and it clouds your judgment. It attracts the most toxic types to you and the mistreatment you receive from those types creates or reinforces all sorts of negative self-beliefs and insecurities which makes it more likely that you’ll settle for toxic types in the future. It’s an extremely vicious cycle. I know some women want to go from desperate to dream girl, they are in desperate situations that they want to fix. Others want to move on. They want to stop overcompensating and stop repeating the pattern of attracting and choosing people who will treat them poorly. I’ve had desperate women use this advice; have the man they were chasing start chasing them only to realize they don’t want him anymore. Because like I said in the first dream girl video, who you want when you’re desperate and broken may not be who you want when you’re happy and healed. So be open to that as well. Whatever your goal, I want to help you get you out of the desperate mindset so you can fix your current relationship or move on and make incredible decisions in the future. If that sounds like what you’re looking for, let’s get started!