Love Vs Arranged Marriage, Lust, Soulmate & Red Flags | Dr Madhumati Singh | FO354 Raj Shamani

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The next 10 years is going to be The Golden Age for India filled with infinite once-in-a-lifetime opportunities, but if you don't prepare and grow yourself to win these opportunities then you won't be able to achieve your 'Indian Dream'. And we won't let that happen, this channel is about helping you grow and win in life. Hi! I am Raj Shamani and I believe in 'figuring out' how to grow every day so that we can live and love better. Our Purpose for this channel is to become one of the most authoritative and informative guides to what is happening in business, relationships, politics, health, science and entertainment. Mission of our podcast "Figuring Out: The Indian Dream': is to help every Indian achieve their 'Indian Dream'. If you subscribe and follow us, we promise that every day we will bring top leaders and ideas from around the world to teach you to get a slight edge in your life.

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Guest Suggestion Form: https://forms.gle/bnaeY3FpoFU9ZjA47 -------------- Disclaimer: This video is intended solely for educational purposes and opinions shared by the guest are her personal views. We do not intent to defame or harm any person/ brand/ product/ country/ profession mentioned in the video. Our goal is to provide information to help audience make informed choices. The media used in this video are solely for informational purposes and belongs to their respective owners. -------------- Order 'Build, Don't Talk' (in English) here: https://amzn.eu/d/eCfijRu Order 'Build Don't Talk' (in Hindi) here: https://amzn.eu/d/4wZISO0 -------------- Follow Our Whatsapp Channel: https://www.whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaokF5x0bIdi3Qn9ef2J -------------- Subscribe To Our Other YouTube Channels:- https://www.youtube.com/@rajshamaniclips https://www.youtube.com/@RajShamani.Shorts 🎧 Stream Figuring Out episodes on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/736rhmW7vilNgkFFo8aDz4 πŸ“Ί Watch Figuring Out episodes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLE0Jo6NF_JYO5-phess8GKafKMtPv3tfZ --------------- Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro 01:52 – Why is pre-marital counseling important? 05:32 – Questions to ask your partner before marriage 08:10 – Love vs Arranged Marriage 11:18 – Why men & women choose to marry 14:58 – Right reasons to get married 19:31 – 7 things to look for in a partner 32:51 – Practical exercise: Values chart 39:41 – Controlling partners & co-dependency 46:53 – What After Value Chart? 49:21 – Signs your marriage might not work 51:00 – Are soulmates real? 55:34 – Why chasing 'movie love' is harmful 57:05 – Psychology of falling in love 1:01:23 – Lust vs love vs attraction 1:03:33 – What is body count? 1:07:20 – Red flags before marriage 1:09:40 – Should you marry someone addicted to alcohol or smoking? 1:12:18 – Marrying someone with multiple partners? 1:14:35 – How to handle a narcissistic partner 1:23:09 – BTS 1:23:39 – Outro --------------- My gear for shooting this video: Canon EOS 200D II 24.1MP DSLR Camera: https://amzn.to/3GuiPFK Canon EF50MM F/1.8 STM Lens: https://amzn.to/3WZOSoi Canon EF-S 18-55mm f/3.5-5.6: https://amzn.to/3ZpKBMy Yunteng Aluminium Tripod (Vct-690, Black): https://amzn.to/3ItEzV0 Zoom H6 All Black (2020 Version): https://amzn.to/3irUCIf Shure SM7B Cardioid Vocal Dynamic Microphone: https://amzn.to/3GPimiM Shure MV7 USB Podcast Microphone: https://amzn.to/3Xjy63d --------------- In this episode, Dr. Maduumatii Siingh, a psychologist and Director of FairGaze with years of experience working with couples, brings a fresh and practical take on relationships, marriage, and what actually makes two people work. We discuss everything from why people get married to what most couples get wrong in the beginning. She breaks a lot of myths, like the idea that the first year of marriage is the honeymoon phase. We talk about love vs. practicality, what premarital counselling should actually cover, and how your values, family background, and even hobbies can shape a relationship. Whether arranged or love, what really matters is preparation, and she explains how. We also discuss red flags like co-dependency, the need to control, and dealing with financial or emotional baggage. Towards the end, we go into the complicated stuff like body count, lust vs love, falling for narcissists, and if you should marry someone with an addiction. It’s an honest, a little unconventional, but super important conversation. Subscribe for more real, unfiltered conversations! Follow Dr. Maduumatii Siingh Here: Website: https://madhumatisingh.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmaduumatiisiingh Facenook: https://www.facebook.com/madhumati.singh LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/madhumati-singh-8036b73b/ --------------- About Raj Shamani Raj Shamani is an Entrepreneur at heart that explains his expertise in Business Content Creation & Public Speaking. He has delivered 200+ speeches in 26+ countries. Besides that, Raj is also an Angel Investor interested in crazy minds who are creating a sensation in the Fintech, FMCG, & passion economy space. To Know More, Follow Raj Shamani On ‡︎ Instagram @RajShamani https://www.instagram.com/rajshamani/ Twitter @RajShamani https://twitter.com/rajshamani Facebook @ShamaniRaj https://www.facebook.com/shamaniraj LinkedIn - Raj Shamani https://www.linkedin.com/in/rajshamani/ β€’ β€’ β€’ #Podcast #FiguringOut #RajShamani #india #marriage #rajshamanipodcast #love #relationship #madhumatisingh #doctor

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