The Speaking Coach: My #1 Method to Defuse Any Argument! Start Saying This When You Get Defensive!

Lewis Howes February 24, 2025
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Lewis Howes is a 3x New York Times best-selling author, 2x All-American athlete, keynote speaker, and entrepreneur. The School of Greatness shares inspiring interviews from the most successful people on the planet—world-renowned leaders in business, entertainment, sports, science, health, and literature—to inspire YOU to unlock your inner greatness and live your best life. Visit him on: https://lewishowes.com/ Listen to the podcast: https://link.chtbl.com/main-yt Text Lewis: https://greatness.lnk.to/chatYT

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💰 Get my NEW book, Make Money Easy! https://lewishowes.com/moneyyou 🔔 Subscribe for more great content: https://www.youtube.com/lewishowes ▶️ Recommended for you: https://youtu.be/YXH_O2FHqpo In a world where heated arguments and misunderstandings ruin our relationships, trial lawyer and communication expert Jefferson Fisher returns to the School of Greatness to reveal the art of meaningful conversation. Sharing insights from his new book "The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More," Fisher unpacks his powerful three-part framework for transformative communication: control, confidence, and connection. Through vulnerable personal examples, including his own struggles with defensive reactions, he illustrates how mastering these elements can heal relationships and prevent unnecessary conflicts. This episode offers game-changing strategies for anyone looking to enhance their personal and professional relationships, particularly those who find themselves caught in recurring arguments or struggling to have difficult conversations. Get Jefferson’s new book The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More https://amzn.to/433K5Yy Listen to this episode on the go! 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-school-of-greatness/id596047499 🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/07GQhOZboEZOE1ysnFLipT?si=a03d916bade54d4f For more info about this episode, go to https://lewishowes.com/1737 📙 get my NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLING book "The Greatness Mindset" today! https://lewishowes.com/gmyo 📤 sign up for my FREE newsletter https://lewishowes.com/greatnessdelivered Follow Lewis! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lewis Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LewisHowes 💻 Website: http://lewishowes.com/ 📲 For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960 Get More Greatness! Greatness Clips: https://www.youtube.com/@GreatnessClips Spanish: https://www.youtube.com/@LewisHowesEspanol Portuguese: https://www.youtube.com/@LewisHowesPortugues Lewis Howes Shorts: https://www.youtube.com/@lewishowesshorts 0:00 Intro 00:02:38 Navigating Conflicts in Relationships 00:05:25 Effective Communication: Understanding Others' Perspectives 00:08:00 Mastering the Art of "Tell Me More" for Stronger Relationships 00:10:42 Mastering Difficult Conversations with Confidence 00:13:17 The Importance of Communication in Relationships 00:16:02 How to Win an Argument without Losing Connection 00:18:42 Creating Miracles and Making Connections 00:21:21 Negotiation Techniques with Chris Voss 00:23:48 Effective Apology Formula and Key Components 00:26:43 Handling Insincere Apologies 00:29:19 Recognizing Emotional Manipulation Tactics 00:32:03 Handling Conflict and Circular Arguments in Law 00:34:39 Understanding Advocacy and Defense 00:37:17 Overcoming Childhood Rejection and Embracing Positivity 00:40:06 Mastering Communication: The Power of Claiming Defensiveness 00:42:46 The Importance of Clear Agreements in Relationships 00:45:34 Building Strong Relationship Agreements 00:48:02 Mastering Communication Skills 00:50:42 How to Handle Emotions in an Argument 00:53:28 How to Support Someone Who Is Grieving 00:55:47 Supporting Grieving Families: What to Do and Say 00:58:12 Embracing and Validating Emotional Pain 01:00:40 Creating Financial Freedom with Strong Boundaries #greatness #inspiration #motivation

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