Thinking About Quitting? Don't Do It Until You Ask These Seven Questions
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Hello, I’m Lucy 👋 I’m a former charity CEO, now a leadership consultant and coach. On YouTube I share what I’ve learned about being happy at work and in life. After 30+ years leading teams in business, public services and non‑profits, I know the truth: work can lift us up or wear us down. This channel is for people who want clarity, confidence, and balance. I founded ChangeOut to help leaders, boards and teams thrive. I bring those lessons, alongside reflections from my own journey, to inspire and support you. Expect practical tips on careers, leadership mindset, building inclusive teams, and overcoming burnout or self‑doubt. You’ll also find honest reflections on purpose and happiness. Work is only one part of a fulfilling life. 🔔 Subscribe if you’re ready to lead well, live well, and enjoy life. Content is for educational purposes based on personal experience and is not a substitute for professional legal or HR advice. ©ChangeOut Ltd Registered in England and Wales No. 11659977
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Feeling stuck in your job but unsure if leaving is the right move? You aren’t alone. If you've been lying awake at night wondering "should I quit my job?" or dreading Monday mornings because you're experiencing a toxic workplace, this video is for you. Before you hand in your notice or resign yourself to burnout, ask these 7 critical questions to make the right decision for your career and health. As someone who has spent 30 years in leadership, I understand the challenge of knowing when to quit your job and the thought of changing careers. I share my personal experiences and provide career advice to help you explore options and navigate this significant decision. In this video, I aim to help purpose-driven professionals navigate the stay-or-go dilemma without regret. We move past the emotional exhaustion to look at the facts: how to assess your professional growth, protect your mental health, check for values alignment, and perform a necessary financial reality check. Whether you need to leave for your wellbeing or stay for your financial security, this framework will give you the clarity to move forward. Plus, I’ve created two digital downloads to help you map out your answers and next steps. 📥 Download the "Should I Stay or Go?" Workbook here: https://ko-fi.com/s/36b4967751 📥 To save you taking notes, you can also download all seven questions for FREE here: https://ko-fi.com/s/af740ce99e ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - Introduction: The Decision You're Wrestling With 00:56 - Question 1: Am I Learning and Growing? 03:13 - Question 2: Is This Affecting My Health? 05:49 - Question 3: Do My Values Align? 08:31 - Question 4: Is There a Path Forward? 11:07 - Question 5: Can I Afford to Leave? 13:55 - Question 6: Have I Done Everything I Can? 16:42 - Question 7: What's My Gut Telling Me? 19:51 - Final Thoughts & Encouragement 💭 Where are you in your decision? Drop a comment - I read every one and often reply with personalised insights. Watch Next: How to Recover From Burnout: 10 Tactics That Really Work: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P6-tXIHYyZ8 As a leadership coach with 35 years of experience in both corporate and non-profit sectors, I help leaders find purpose, overcome burnout, and navigate change. My mission is to support you in discovering work that brings fulfilment while making a meaningful impact. 📱 CONNECT WITH ME: 🕸️ Website: https://changeout.org 🗞️ Get my weekly newsletter about leadership and work life at: https://www.changeout.org/the-newsletter/ ☕️ Buy me a coffee https://ko-fi.com/changeout. Thank you! DISCLAIMER: The content in this video is intended for general informational and educational purposes only. It reflects my personal experiences and perspectives gained from working in the UK nonprofit sector and is not a substitute for professional advice tailored to your specific circumstances. If you need support with workplace issues, leadership challenges, or wellbeing concerns, please consult with qualified professionals including HR advisors, employment lawyers, therapists, or coaches who can provide guidance relevant to your geography, industry, and individual situation. While I aim to share helpful insights, every workplace and individual is different. What worked in my context may not be appropriate for yours. Please use your judgment and seek professional advice where needed.
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