Why Women Struggle With Confidence (and How to Fix It) | The Masoom Minawala Show

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We all know what confidence 'looks' like - but how do you 'feel' confident?? This is a must-listen for anyone who’s ever doubted their voice, questioned their worth, or felt invisible in a room. Nimi Mehta grew up quiet—so quiet, in fact, she avoided eye contact, feared speaking, and accepted that silence was just part of her personality. But over the years, that silence became a challenge she refused to let define her. Today, Nimi is a celebrated TV and radio host, an international speaker, and the founder of Speaker, a global community helping women build real confidence and communication skills. Her story is a testament to what happens when we stop shrinking and finally decide to take up space. Conversation Highlights Why “confidence” isn’t a trait—it’s a skill anyone can build The shocking power of silent confidence (and how to cultivate it) What no one tells you about voice training—and how it changes your presence The “alter ego” strategy Nimi and Masoom both used to become who they are today How to reframe rejection, redefine friendship, and do a personal relationship audit A step-by-step breakdown of how to speak up—without sounding rude, loud, or apologetic If you’ve ever felt unheard, underconfident, or uncertain about how to show up in the world—this episode is for you. Nimi doesn’t just share her story; she hands you the tools to change yours. Whether you're stepping into a boardroom, a dinner table, or simply your own reflection—this conversation will leave you standing taller. What You’ll Walk Away With: Confidence Is a Skill: You’re not born with it. You build it. Silent Confidence Wins: You don’t have to be loud to be powerful. Train Your Voice Like an Instrument: Presence is a practice. Redefine Self-Worth: You are enough without the job title. Audit Your Circle: Some people drain your confidence—cut them out. Watch at 1.5x speed for a faster, more efficient listen. Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction to the Episode 02:12 – The ‘Good Girl’ Conditioning in Indian Culture 03:09 – How to Start Building Confidence 05:00 – Overcoming Fear of Public Spaces and Networking 06:41 – Alter Ego Technique for Confidence Building 08:26 – How Role Models Help You Embody Confidence 10:20 – Becoming Board vs Vision Board 14:01 – Masoom & Nimmi’s Personal Journeys with Confidence 17:42 – Confidence as Doubt Management 18:38 – Silent Confidence vs Loud Confidence 21:28 – Voice Training and Speaking from the Stomach 27:09 – What Great Speakers and CEOs Do Differently 29:04 – How to Prepare for Job Interviews with Confidence 33:02 – Communication and Boundaries in Relationships 🎙️ About the show: Hosted by Masoom Minawala, The Masoom Minawala Show brings honest, vulnerable conversations with changemakers, creators, and entrepreneurs. Every episode is designed to spark personal growth and meaningful change. About Masoom: Masoom Minawala is a global influencer, entrepreneur, and content creator passionate about empowering women and promoting Indian talent worldwide. With over a decade of experience, Masoom has been featured in Vogue, CNN’s 20 under 40, and HSBC’s list of leading female entrepreneurs worldwide. She’s worked with over 500+ global brands, represented India at the Cannes Film Festival red carpet, and delivered impactful talks. Want to buy Masoom’s book? It’s a no-filter guide to turning setbacks into success—and building a business that actually works. Get it here: https://www.amazon.in/Shell-Never-Make-Journey-Dominance/dp/9353458528 📲 Social Media: My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masoomminawala/ My LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/masoomminawala/