為什麼不該追求愛情 Why shouldn't we "pursue" love? | 國洋 張 | TEDxFJU

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戀愛與職場原來有這麼多相似之處?商業顧問張國洋認為,不少人在談戀愛時常被中文所謂的「追求」二字給誤導了,傾向聽從直覺採取一個容易把對方嚇退的策略。 但實際上要發展長遠的戀愛關係,我們應像知名品牌建立客戶興趣那樣,採取一種釣魚型的策略:一面拿出價值與口碑吸引魚群;另一方面,則要避免急躁收線以免把魚線弄斷。 It is very similar between pursuing lover and building career. Business consultant JHANG, GUO YANG thinks a lot of people have misunderstood the meaning of "pursue the love", and often scare off the one. In fact, if people want to develope a long term relationship, should make the target interested in them just like to make the customer interested in the brand. Take fishing for example, fisher lure the fish with value and good reputation but doesn't rush to reel the thread in, otherwise, the string might break and the fish will go away. 專案管理生活思維 共同創辦人/作者 This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx

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