Getting cheated on, divorced & hiding our 12-year-old from the internet w/ Kay & Tay | Ep. 51
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This episode was sponsored by Huggies, LiquidIV, Hiya & Factor. Visit https://huggies.com and get your baby’s butt into Huggies best fitting diaper! Huggies Little Movers. Go to https://LiquidIV.com and use promo code UNPLANNED to get 20% off your first order. Visit https://HiyaHealth.com/UNPLANNED and receive 50% off your first order. Head to https://factormeals.com/unplanned50 and use code unplanned50 to get 50% off. BUY OUR MERCH!! https://unplannedpodcast.com This week we were joined by @KayAndTay. We discussed their previous marriages and divorces, Tay's experience being cheated on while he was in Afghanistan serving in the military & Kay speaks on why she keeps her 12-year-old daughter out of the spotlight. Kay' IG: https://www.instagram.com/kay.dudley/ Tay's IG: https://www.instagram.com/taylordudleywastaken/ Listen to Matt's new song "best friends" here: https://song.link/i/1717255366 Follow Matt on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/13zOfSuwHaEmdNMnzMcSaC?si=AqJxwjqBRxeM3SmtsngXZA&nd=1 Follow The Unplanned Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/unplanned__podcast/ https://www.tiktok.com/@unplanned_podcast Listen to the pod on Spotify/ Apple Podcasts: https://open.spotify.com/show/1ToDA4ufQuWuEgMq07zN6t https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unplanned-podcast/id1669604504 Follow Matt & Abby: Abby's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/abbyelizabethoward/ Matt's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/_matt_howard_/ TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_and_abby Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mattandabb YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@MattandAbby Chapters: 00:00 - Episode 51 02:32 - Why we eloped 09:41 - Finding love after divorce 16:01 - Becoming a single mom at 22 20:17 - Finding out my wife cheated on me 31:26 - Red flags in an abusive relationship 36:10 - We didn’t think we could have kids 42:19 - Having a newborn at 30 51:17 - The military incentivises marriage 56:48 - Breastfeeding isn’t one size fits all 1:01:52 - Why I don’t share my daughter online #unplannedpodcast #mattandabby #kayandtay
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