How to get someone to like you

Vanessa Van Edwards July 20, 2018
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Vanessa Van Edwards

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I will teach you how to communicate with confidence. I share science-backed, practical strategies to help you thrive in business, life, and love. Even if you're an introvert! I’m Vanessa Van Edwards, bestselling author of Captivate and Cues. I also teach a course at Harvard University and have taught millions of students how to be more memorable and get the recognition they deserve in my online courses. My goal is to help you level up your people skills. Want advanced communication tips? Join ambitious professionals in People School, our advanced online communication course. Attend live office hours with me where I answer your questions. I'll give you tools to master your interpersonal success. I’ll help you out! vanessa.live

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It can be hard to make friends and sometimes we don't even know where to begin. There's a science to likability and I've compiled 5 science-backed tips to use when you feel stuck in a social rut. In this video, I will teach you how to be more likable, confident, and memorable by authentically being yourself. Remember that you are awesome and the right people will always find you. Want more details on how to supercharge your likability? 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/likeable-get-people-to-like-you/ Captivate anyone you talk to with my book Captivate! Get your copy here: https://www.amazon.com/Captivate-Vanessa-Van-Edwards-audiobook/dp/B06XK2P1WG/ref=sr_1_1?crid=239HE22HPLYD1&keywords=captivate+vanessa+van+edwards&qid=1652726852&sprefix=captivate%2Caps%2C102&sr=8-1 In this video: 0:00 Intro 0:55 Science Behind Likability 2:02 Step #1: Use signaling 4:40 Step #2: We like people who like us 5:41 Step #3: Use the similarity attraction effect 6:33 Step #4: Highlight similarities 8:05 Step #5: Be the real deal 8:51 I like you ****** If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR People School is a 12-step video-based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. People School focuses on the four core competencies of Business PQ: • Empower Leaders and Managers • Leverage Science-Backed Communication Tools • Activate Effective Teamwork and Collaboration • Improve Client Relations & Sales 👉People School registration is now OPEN! Sign up here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/train... ****** Hi, I’m Vanessa! You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/ My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of: Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators. My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again. PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com + Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/ ****** Vanessa Van Edwards is Lead Investigator at Science of People — where she unlocks the formulas and patterns behind human behavior for hundreds of thousands of students in over 200 countries. She is the national bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding With People, available in 14 languages around the world. Her work has been featured on CNN, NPR, BBC, Fast Company and dozens more. Can’t get enough of Science of People? Check out our Praiseworthy Performance audio guide 👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/start/ ****** Did you enjoy the video? If so, give it a like above! Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies 👉 https://youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT/ P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell! #vanessavanedwards #peopleskills #likeable

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