When the Turn On Becomes a Turn Off: Our Sexual Fantasies | Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel
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February 26, 2025
Esther Perel
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Hello, I'm Esther Perel. I am a relationship therapist and New York Times bestselling author of The State of Affairs and Mating in Captivity. You may also know me from my TED talks or my podcast, Where Should We Begin. On this channel, you'll find a range of videos: short Q&As answering subscriber questions, longer explorations into the future of modern relationships, and interviews with therapists and other experts in the field. This is a conversation that is so important in this moment. I welcome you to ask questions, participate, and join me as we explore the intricacies of love and desire.
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