Why Intimacy Feels SO Good With the WRONG People – Shan Boodram

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►► Real Change Doesn't Happen by Accident. . . Make a Powerful Decision to Prioritise Yourself This Year. Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat at . . . → https://www.MHRetreat.com ▼ Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now. I post new love life advice for you every weekend. ▼ Why do we sometimes get ghosted or friend-zoned after intimacy? How can we navigate mismatched libidos, steer clear of toxic intimacy the wrong people, or keep the spark alive in long-term relationships? In this episode, Matthew and Audrey sit down with Shan Boodram, a certified sex educator and relationship expert with an M.S. in psychology, for a candid conversation about sex, intimacy, and the unspoken dynamics that shape our love lives. ►►Don’t sweat summer nights. Cozy Earth’s ultra-soft, cooling sheets turn summer sleep into pure comfort. Get 40% off with code LOVELIFE – https://cozyearth.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼ Blog → https://www.matthewhussey.com/blog/ Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@thematthewhussey ▼ Connect with Shan Boodram ▼ Website → https://www.loversbyshan.com/ Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram Youtube → @loversbyshan TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@shanboody ▼ Connect with Audrey ▼ Instagram → https://bit.ly/AudreyHusseyIG ▼ Chapters ▼ 0:00 – 3:13 – Why Do I Always Get Ghosted or Friend-Zoned After Intimacy? 3:13 – 9:13 – Sex and Commitment 9:13 – 12:49 – Advice for Having “The Conversation” 12:49 – 15:38 – Asking Someone to Use a Condom 15:38 – 20:52 – Different Sex Timelines 20:52 – 22:32 – A Way to Get Better Sleep 22:32 – 26:32 – “I’m a Cup of Tea” 26:32 – 29:53 – Misaligned Libidos and Creating a Shared Culture 29:53 – 35:17 – Communication vs. Analyzing Things Too Much 35:17 – 40:03 – Role-Playing and “Building a Fire” 40:03 – 41:57 – Chore-Play and Sapiosexual Connection 41:57 – 43:22 – 1-on-1 Coaching 24/7 43:22 – 47:07 – Talking About What You Like in Bed 47:07 – 54:58 – How to Stop Retroactive Jealousy 54:58 – 58:28 – Why Sex Sometimes Feels So Good in Toxic Relationships 58:28 – 1:02:32 – Keeping the Spark Alive in Long-Term Relationships 1:02:32 – 1:06:15 – When a Fantasy Comes Up Against a Boundary 1:06:15 – 1:12:30 – People Shan Looks Up to in This Space 1:12:30 – 1:14:17 – Join Me This Fall