Why Men CHASE Some Women: the Power of Dark Feminine Energy

MJ Harris • January 1, 2025
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Meet MJ—the hilarious, no-nonsense "best friend" everyone wishes they had! MJ is an internationally recognized author, media personality, entrepreneur, producer, and lifestyle/business influencer who has been endorsed by Oprah, USA Today, Tabitha Brown, and Black Enterprise. For over a decade, he has inspired and uplifted over 6 million devoted followers with his in-your-face, motivational content, reminding you that you deserve to live your best life! Loved by audiences across YouTube, Facebook, TikTok, and Instagram, MJ’s fans can’t get enough of his hilarious, straightforward, and unfiltered advice. Whether it’s about fixing your relationships, situationships, finances, or dealing with frenemies, MJ’s sage wisdom will help you get out of your own way and take charge of your life. But MJ is more than just a pretty face… He’s also the CEO and founder of a family of companies, including one of America's largest black-owned financial services conglomerates.

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šŸ”„ Activate Your Dark Feminine Energy—Unleash Your Power! What if you could make men chase you, admire you, and want to be around you—all without playing games? In this video, MJ Harris dives into the secrets of Dark Feminine Energy, teaching you how to use it intentionally to attract the life and relationships you deserve. Learn how to step into your power, create desire, and maintain the upper hand in any dynamic. This isn’t about manipulation—it’s about showing up for yourself and making your energy irresistible. šŸ’¬ Comment below: Have you ever used your feminine energy to shift a dynamic in your favor? Let’s discuss and empower each other! Full Timestamps: ā° 0:00 - Introduction: What Is Dark Feminine Energy? ā° 0:33 - Debunking Myths: Why Dark Feminine Energy Is Not Manipulation ā° 1:16 - Feminine Energy as a Superpower: Receiving and Protecting ā° 2:06 - Activating Masculine Energy: The Push-Pull Dynamic ā° 3:32 - The Mistakes Feminine Energy Makes That Push Men Away ā° 5:08 - Creating Curiosity and Mystery While Boosting His Ego ā° 6:12 - Communicating Without Over-Revealing: Keeping Him Guessing ā° 7:39 - The Role of Scarcity: Why Limited Access Increases Value ā° 10:04 - Setting Boundaries on Physical Access: First Date Strategies ā° 11:45 - Leaving Him Wanting More: The Perfect Exit Strategy ā° 14:12 - The Coquette Energy: Giving, Then Pulling Back ā° 18:07 - On the Date: Subtle Actions to Reinforce Your Power ā° 23:45 - Conclusion: How to Use Your Feminine Energy as a Superpower Work with MJ Harris & Resources: šŸ”„ Schedule a coaching session with MJ: https://linktr.ee/mjharrisspeaks šŸ”„ Get MJ's Bestselling Book: https://www.mjharrisspeaks.com/book/get-the-fck-out-your-own-way šŸ”„ Get Affordable Life Insurance: https://imalilife.com šŸ”„ Join MJ’s Team (Learn to Sell Insurance): https://imalilife.com/i-want-to-sell-insurance-opt-in Follow MJ Harris Online: šŸ”„ Instagram: https://instagram.com/mjharrisspeaks šŸ”„ Facebook: https://facebook.com/MJHarrisSpeaks šŸ”„ TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@mjharrisspeaks Watch More MJ Harris Videos: Relationship and Dating Advice: https://youtube.com/playlist?v=_0Y5raZbfGM&list=PL2GP17BeNlBjCzQoQDepyIpeb8Ofponwk&playnext=1 Financial Tips: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2GP17BeNlBidh6QW_pImFkz_LTA7zAAH&playnext=1 Life with MJ: https://youtube.com/playlist?v=s5GRxjj0IQg&list=PL2GP17BeNlBisvlYkKjhzeEjPtSDo0a9y&playnext=1 Most Popular Videos: https://youtube.com/playlist?v=GtYW-VU63Rk&list=PL2GP17BeNlBj811sEVvvYcHU2s30__Lh-&playnext=1 About MJ Harris: Malcolm ā€œMJā€ Harris is the bestselling author who helps you live your best life emotionally, romantically, and financially—and he makes you laugh a lot! MJ is an internationally recognized lifestyle and business influencer who has been featured by Oprah, USA Today, and Black Enterprise. He has a global reach of over 20 million people each month—across social media and TV. In addition, he is the CEO and founder of the MJ Harris family of companies, which is one of America’s largest African-American-owned financial services firms. MJ’s rise began with creating empowering and aspirational content about lessons learned from his path of achieving success after overcoming a childhood surrounded by abuse and addiction. Through his videos, online courses, and live events, he created a loyal global fanbase and quickly became a powerhouse in the self-improvement industry. #MJHarris #DarkFeminineEnergy #FemininePower #Boundaries #RelationshipAdvice #Empowerment #DatingTips

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