CUTTING TIES: DEALING WITH TOXIC FAMILY AND SIBLING ESTRANGEMENT

Támara Hill, MS NCC CCTP LPC July 7, 2024
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Támara Hill, MS NCC CCTP LPC

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Hello friend! This is "digital trauma-focused psychotherapy." My name is Támara and I am a Licensed Psychotherapist, international & Board Certified trauma therapist with 16 years experience treating families, adult children, parents, children, teens, college students, and adults. I train, teach, and offer consultations all around the world. *Topics reflect my personal and professional experience. While I respect the research my field has done on human behavior, "text-book" psychology has no place on this channel. --------------------------- *LIVE CHATS are 6:50pm est. on Fridays and 7:30pm est Saturdays. *VIDEOS are every Tuesday 8:55pm est. DISCLAIMER: IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW ARE EXPERIENCING SUICIDAL THOUGHTS, SELF-HARM, OR IS IN IMMEDIATE DANGER, PLEASE CONTACT 800-273-8255 NATIONAL SUICIDE HOTLINE OR TEXT 741741 IF THERE IS A CRISIS.

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It's a sad reality but a toxic family dynamic can struggle with the relationship between siblings that is unexpectedly severed. Sibling astrangement and parent alienation is a real phenomenon and sometimes when it happens, other family members may also disappear from the life of the estranged sibling. Now, you are alienated from both your parent and your brother. In this live chat, I discuss the psychology of sibling estrangement and toxic parent dynamic. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #trauma #tamarahilllpc #TOXICFAMILY ------------------------------------------------------ DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT: 0:00 Intro 4:00 the scenario of sibling estrangement 6:12 "emotional estrangement" 7:13 estrangement is not inherently wrong or evil 8:56 quantitative VS. qualitative data 22:08 INTENTIONAL SIBLING ESTRANGEMENT 26:06 shared experience no longer matters 44:40 PARENT ALIENATION TOWARD ESTRANGED SIBLING 49:15 WHAT CAUSES SIBLING ESTRANGEMENT *discussion in-between content -------------------------------------------------------------------- Mentioned In The Live Chat (research & further information): 1. Differential parenting and sibling jealousy: Developmental correlates of young adults' romantic relationships https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2396512/ 2. The relationship between parental role expectations and sibling jealousy: the mediating effect of first-born children’s role cognition https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9992901/ 3. Parenting Characteristics and Callous-Unemotional Traits in Children Aged 0–6 Years: A Systematic Narrative Review https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10578-023-01634-6 4. Heritable and non-heritable pathways to early callous-unemotional behaviors https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5008992/ 5. Heritable and Nonheritable Pathways to Early Callous-Unemotional Behaviors https://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/doi/pdf/10.1176/appi.ajp.2016.15111381 6. The Heritability of Callous and Unemotional Traits https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/surviving-the-female-psychopath/202305/the-heritability-of-callous-and-unemotional-traits 7. Mommy Dearest movie https://youtu.be/xfks96rXxq8?si=EFDpDfe9nqt1rWR4 8. Aspects of morbid jealousy https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/advances-in-psychiatric-treatment/article/aspects-of-morbid-jealousy/06CBB7BF78CC43C785AE6F7C0F0046C9 9. The relationship between parental role expectations and sibling jealousy: the mediating effect of first-born children’s role cognition https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9992901/ 10. The Role of Perceived Maternal Favoritism in Sibling Relations in Midlife https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2810864/ 11. A psychological analysis of parental favortism and hyprocrycy of family love in Mansfield's New Dresses' American Research Journal of English and Literature, 4, (1), 2018, 1-10 pages Doi: 10.21694/2378-9026.1805 12. Scharp K. M., Hall E. D. (2017). Family marginalization, alienation, and estrangement: Questioning the nonvoluntary status of family relationships. Annals of the International Communication Association, 41(1), 28–45. https://doi.org/10.1080/23808985.2017.1285680 13. Agllias, K. (2016). Disconnection and decision-making: Adult children explain their reasons for estranging from parents. Australian Social Work, 69(1), 92-104. 14. Hank, K., & Steinbach, A. (2023). Sibling estrangement in adulthood. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 40(4), 1277-1287. https://doi.org/10.1177/02654075221127863 ----------------------------------------------------------------- DISCLAIMER: *Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases. If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/. ---------------------------------------------------------------- ----Contact me-------(BUSINESS INQUIRIES ONLY) I'm Támara, a licensed and internationally/Board certified trauma mental health therapist, with over 15 years experience. I specialize in helping children, teens, and families with mental illness. I also treat psychological/emotional trauma in children, teens, and adults. If you'd like to contact me or inquire about my international consultations, you may email me at [email protected]. *Please note: all consultations are charged a fixed rate fee based on the case content. Mail me stuff! PO BOX 15747 Robinson Township, PA 15244 *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Twitter - http://www.twitter.com/therapisttee Website - http://www.anchoredinknowledge.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thilltherapist/?hl=en ______________________________________ Copyright © All rights reserved. Permission must be given before videos are used.

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