"My father molested me for years.": Jason Mellard Testimony - The Becket Cook Show Ep. 218
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The Becket Cook Show was created by Becket Cook to discuss relevant topics and to crush the lies of culture with truth. Becket Cook was born and raised in Dallas, Texas. After graduating from college, he moved to Los Angeles to pursue his dream of writing and acting, finding success in both. He eventually became a production designer working on fashion shoots for brands such as Vogue, Harper’s Bazaar, Gap, L'Oréal Paris, and Nike. Becket lived as a gay man until 2009, when he reluctantly agreed to attend a church service at which he was transformed by the gospel and gave his life to Christ. He also knew that homosexuality was a sin and that he could no longer live that life. Becket spends much of his time in ministry speaking at churches, universities, and conferences helping people understand this issue biblically, theologically, culturally, and personally. Becket graduated from Talbot School of Theology at Biola University in 2017 with a Master of Arts in Theology.
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Support The Becket Cook Show on Patreon!: https://www.patreon.com/thebecketcookshow NOTE: When you sign up for Patreon, PLEASE do it through a web browser (Safari, Chrome, etc.) and NOT an app on your iPhone. The Apple app charges 30% !!! If you just click on the link above, it should be fine. Other ways to give: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/becketcook Venmo: @Becket-Cook Listen to the podcast version here: https://omny.fm/shows/the-becket-cook-show In this powerful episode Becket Cook talks to Jason Mellard, a man whose journey from childhood trauma and same-sex attraction to healing, faith, and family will leave you deeply moved. Jason reveals how years of confusion and pain—rooted in sexual abuse and a fractured relationship with his father—ultimately inspired him to create his transformative “Four S Framework”: Separation, Sensation, Sin, and Story. This life-changing approach helps men better understand the roots of same-sex attraction and find restoration through truth, identity, and God’s grace. As Jason recounts his father’s tragic struggle, his own path through recovery, and how he ultimately found freedom, purpose, and love through Christ, viewers are offered an authentic look at redemption in action. Today, Jason is a husband, father of three, and a coach helping men overcome shame, reconnect with God, and live lives full of purpose and possibility. His story is both heartbreaking and deeply hopeful—a testament to how God can transform even the most broken past into a radiant future. Jason's Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@UCG9wRR7Jz4zeHdrMisvotTA Jason's Website: https://ownyouridentitynow.com ⏱️ Timestamps: 1:35 – Jason's “Four S Framework” 9:17 – A Traumatic Childhood 17:11 – His Father's Gay Lifestyle 23:40 – His Father's Death 50:00 – Meeting His Wife 58:00 – Helping Men Heal #BecketCookShow #JasonMellard #FaithAndHealing #ChristianTestimony #SameSexAttraction #OvercomingAbuse #IdentityInChrist #RedemptionStory #ChristianPodcast #GodsGrace WANT MORE? Buy Becket Cook's book about his dramatic conversion from gay atheist to born-again Christian: "A Change of Affection: A Gay Man's Incredible Story of Redemption" HERE - https://amzn.to/3hirfnh RECENT EPISODES OF THE BECKET COOK SHOW: https://youtu.be/ULIObwQbE1E https://youtu.be/p6he-uKf8GE https://youtu.be/2Tzk2baeP14 https://youtu.be/K8HLM2A0mj0 https://youtu.be/fM_2SGLEcDU STAY CONNECTED: Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebecketcookshow Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-1308604 X: https://twitter.com/becketcook/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/becketcook/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/becket.cook/ Website: https://www.becketcook.com/
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