你是一群人裡面的照亮者還是削弱者?|《深刻認識一個人》|文森說書
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原文書名:How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen 中文書名:深刻認識一個人:發現自己與他人的非凡之處 最近特別喜歡挑戰厚厚的書,本以為應該可以很快看完然後做成影片吧,但顯然,我太高估自己了,這本書真的花了一周時間才看完。 那這本書我坦白說,閱讀體驗會跟聽我分享有點差異,因為書上是以故事為基礎來談概念,但因為這些故事很難用動畫的方式來呈現,於是我省略了故事,只談概念。但還是希望我有將很棒的部分分享給大家。 相關影片➡️ 《人性的弱點》:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbEYbPrcoac 《非暴力溝通》:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8BfBu4n7rUY 《你都沒在聽》:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tulgErDvm7g 《魅力學》:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7iBrrLC54ck #聆聽 #人際關係 #心理學 #溝通 #書單 #聊天 00:00 教育方針讓學生們的追求變了 01:56 數據顯示大家越來越孤單 02:46 反社會的行為越來越多 03:40 這本書要來說明什麼問題 04:25 人都可以分成兩類,第一類:削弱者 05:59 第二類:照亮者 07:51 讓對話順暢的三個小技巧 09:54 讓對話更上一層的兩個深度技巧 12:44 照亮者與削弱者的比較 13:31 我的結語:成為照亮者的好處 18:37 結尾小故事:南希 我的Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/tw/podcast/%E6%96%87%E6%A3%AE%E8%AA%AA%E6%9B%B8/id1513786617 (在Apple Podcast/Spotify/KKBOX上都可以找到) 我的Instagram: https://instagram.com/vincent_reading 我的Threads: https://www.threads.net/@vincent_reading 商業合作可以寫信至: [email protected] 若喜歡我的影片或頻道,可以訂閱頻道和分享給朋友,謝謝拉 訂閱頻道:https://www.youtube.com/@vincent_reading?sub_confirmation=1 贊助頻道:https://www.youtube.com/@vincent_reading/join
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